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Meil oli tore. :)

Shhh!

It is a secret. Don´t tell anyone, ok? Deal?

I have had this secret for 4 years now. Are you ready?

I wanna go to a ball. I want to dance and wear a long beautiful dress. I want to wear high heals and a good strong make up. I want my hair to look amazing and I want to shine. I want everybody to look at me and think, WOW, she is gorgeous. I want people to look at me and think, man she can dance so good! And I want to be the princess on that special evening. I want my man to look at me and think, wow, I have the most precious girl in the whole universe and tonight she is just AMAZING.

So thats my secret.

And one day I know it is going to happen. I know it deep in my heart and no one can take that from me. No one!

Laager

WOW.
Jumal on hea Isa ja Ta nii tahab, et me ootaksime...
Ma ootasin. Väga igatsesin, et laager tuleks. Ok, pean tunnistama, et olin väga väsinud kõigest, mis mu ümber oli toimunud ...

AAH, I dont know how to write in Estonian anymore. Crap. Im getting bad...
Anyway, I was in the winter camp this weekend and it was awesome with a big A! :) Everything that I waited happened. I waited for my Heavenly Dad to show me His love. Through people, through His word, through worship. And He just was there. From the moment we arrived til the moment we left. We had a wonderful worshiptime last night, God just gave me a word to share through singing... And I must say I love these kids, these youth. They are all so unique and wonderful. In their own weird ways! :D hehe.

And so, Ive got 1 more week in Tartu. 4 days at work. 5 days to spend time with my loved women and men of God. And Im gonna move tomorrow to Vivia and Andrea, just to be with them for 3-4 days. So yes, this is my 1 week that I have left! :)

And Ive got one more thing to say: GOD IS NEVER LATE! :)

s.p.r.i.n.g

i
just
want
spring
thats
why
the
blossoms

...

I think I should eat more, my clothes are starting to get baggy on me.
Oh Tartu dear Tartu, you have these weird effects on me. :)

THE thing

I wake up. Take a shower. Eat.
And then it starts.
The inner talk.
What to wear. what to wear. what to wear. and what about make up. I should put make up on otherwise Im ugly. Yes. Im gonna put make up on. Mascara. Yes. And lot of face-powder. Yes, that will cover all the face-faults. All the tiny spots. The red dots. I am gonna put it on a lot. Just in case. And then the red lipstick. Definitely red. Because then all can see that Im pretty. Otherwise Im not pretty. Right? Yes. So with this make-up I feel pretty. Oh and hair. I should put them up. No, I will just leave them down. They are too straight. I want curly hair. I want them to be curly. Why aren´t they curly? Why she has curly hair. And I mean I want my eyelashes to be bigger. Why do they have to be so tiny? It is not nice. I dont like them. And my stomach looks so ugly in this shirt. I have to change the shirt, otherwise I look fat. And those pants. OMG. I think I am tired. I have had the same pants on for 3 weeks now. God. I need new ones. These are getting a bit big on me. Seriously. How come I feel so ugly? Ok, this shirt is better. It is loose so my belly is fine under it. And what to put on top of it? This sweater? No. Too dark. Ahh, this is fine. Finally. And I still think Im not good enough. How come? It took me an hour or two to do this and Im still not good enough?

The inner cry of me. Me as a woman. I.
I am tired of wanting to be someone else.
I want to be me.
Without make up the same worthy as with make up.

2 more weeks

I have 2 more weeks in Tartu. Today in 2 weeks I will be going back home, to Türi. And then on the 9th of February my plane goes to Manchester, England. And I will be back on the 18th of Feb. But I wont come back to Tartu after that... Yes, I have decided that.
Somehow I have a feeling Im going to move forward. I am not going to say anything about that yet... But if you wanna do something with me you have the chance NOW. :)

The answer

: Yes

A question

Is it possible to miss someone to the point your heart is breaking?

So

I made some decisions about this year which Im not gonna write here. Because sometimes we have a way of writing and telling things too early and then when they dont happen we feel that we are a dissapointment. So not this time. I have learned my way with some other stuff in past. But know that some decisions have been made...

Ok, but about yesterday. I went to a youth meeting in Elusõna. And I must say it was awesome. We did worshipsongs with Pille-Riin and Samuel... sweeet. And later Mihkel was preaching, no I like the word sharing more. He was talking how we can find a way from the place we are now to the place we would like to be. I mean when we think now ooh I dont have this and Im too fat and I have no money and I am like this and that... and then we think thay ooh if I´d have more money and no stomach and I´d be with this kind of personality... And then he brought out an interesting fact that in Bible when God created the world he didnt ponder IF things will happen. He just said the word and it happened. Like: Light be. Light was. Man be. Man was... and so on. And so basically sometimes we speak over our lives the words of death. Just saying bad things out about situations that seem bad and we just talk and talk... But then if we´d start saying things like, NO, I do have money. And I am enough (coz Im Bible it says that I am fearfully and wonderfully made) and I am strong in Him and stuff like that then in one point these things would start to come alive. We may not believe it in the beginning (I know this) but saying things out is a way of things happening. Coz we have been made by the image of God. Which means God said and things happened. So we can also speak and things start to happen.

So thats how we can end up from HERE to THERE! :)

I mean

I mean how many tears can a woman contain?????

WOW

Arms Wide Open – Misty Edwards

“What does love look like?” is the question I’ve been pondering
“What does love look like?”
“What does love look like?” is the question I’ve been asking of You

I once believed that love was romance, just a chance
I even thought that love was for the lucky and the beautiful
I once believed that love was a momentary bliss
But love is more than this
All You ever wanted was my attention
All You ever wanted was love from me
All You ever wanted was my affections, to sit here at Your feet

Then I sat down, a little frustrated and confused
If all of life comes down to love
Then love has to be more than sentiment
More than selfishness and selfish gain

And then I saw Him there, hanging on a tree, looking at me
I saw Him there, hanging on a tree, looking at me
He was looking at me, looking at Him, staring through me
I could not escape those beautiful eyes
And I began to weep and weep
He had arms wide open, a heart exposed
Arms wide open; He was bleeding, bleeding
Love’s definition, love’s definition was looking at me
Looking at Him, hanging on a tree
I began to weep and weep and weep and weep

This is how I know what love is, this is how I know what love is

And as I sat there weeping, crying
Those beautiful eyes, full of desire and love
He said to me, “You shall love Me, You shall love Me
You shall love Me, You shall love Me”

With arms wide open, a heart exposed
With arms wide open, bleeding, sometimes bleeding

If anybody’s looking for love in all the wrong places
If you’ve been searching for love, come to Me, come to Me
Take up your cross, deny yourself
Forget your father’s house and run, run with Me
You were made for abandonment, wholeheartedness
You were made for someone greater, someone bigger, so follow Me
And You’ll come alive when you learn to die

Ok, do not think that I am a rock and have no feelings whatsoever. The breakup has left a huge mark inside of me aswell. And all the laughing and being with friends does not fill that up. I know what does but somehow it is not so easy always. My God and God only can fill me up with Him. I want it and I need it. But I am not doing so good all the time. I have my days when Im only crying.
My Tartu-life has been a blessing but it is hard also. So if you were reading my blog about the time here... I mean its all good and amazing. But it is also a lot of tears and pain.

And I do need a hug when you see me. It is somehow comforting...

my heart aches for You, my God...

The T

Tartu

So I am gonna write a little about my time here... Otherwise you all read about my issues and problems, BUT its not all that :D haha

Anyway I arrived on the 5th, almost 2 weeks ago... (its the 17th today). I have had some awesome times with friends... Dinners, lunches, movie-watching (cinnamon and home-tv), wonderful conversations, cry-times, laugh-times...

Then I´ve been to some childrens-play-readings. Its been an interesting company, 2 girls and ab 10 men... haha :D Its been more then fun. And through these people I have been selling tickets 2 Sundays to their other play!
And I have had 3 work-days so far. If u have nothing to do, come visit me. The address is: VÕRU 5 and the second-hand store is called KOOBAS! :) I have had some boring and cold times there but also some fun moments! :)

UUUH and beibi, I have been working out. I have been to classes already. Tess organized some kind of work-out here some months ago and I have been to 2 now. I feel so much better. + all the walking that I do. I must be fit soon. :D

And stomachpain is slowly but kindly decided to leave me. I can still feel a bit and it´s not a good feeling but it is leaving... so.

Oooh and I even went to a concert with a friend from Saaremaa (she studies in Tartu) and before that she made me a henna for 2 weeks (oh btw its my hand on the picture, nothing else... hahah). Its cool... :)

So this is my Tartu life!

pain

I´ve got some crazy stomach-pain thing going on. I woke up y.day and all was good until 10.am and I just had to go back to bed coz the pain was unbearable. So I let a friend of mine to pray for me and I was able to fall back to sleep until 2ish... and then woke up with a slight pain which was not bad. But going back to sleep last night. :/ I think I finally fell asleep around 2-3 and Im up again, its 8.am... Its been storms in my stomach. Took painkillers already but...
I need a healing. I have had this since anorexia. Just random stomachpain showups... :S 1 in every 2-3 months. Not good at all. Its really painful...

Ok

I might have my own opinion and stuff, but I cant agree with some things. See, I dont think in order for a woman to look pretty she needs to expose herself. Well, let me explain this.
We see these "half-naked" photos everywhere. 13, 14 year old girls showing their pictures where they have almost nothing on except for a tiny tiny shirt that exposes her boobs and a tiny skirt that shows all her legs. I mean, WOW. How in a world have we end up here? Showing all of us to men? Why? Do we need to feel loved? Do we need it so desperately that we are willing to show the most secret part of us that is our body? Ok, see, I dont wanna go extreme. I mean, summer, fine, be on a beach with your tiny bit of swimmingclothes. But even then I dont think we should wear the tiniest things we can find from stores... Cmn, strings on a beach? A big no-no in my opinion.
I am just a bit disturbed right now. I dont want to see my friends (even the "not so young ones" hanging pictures on FB with their shirts wide open...). Dont do this. Why in the world do you want to even mess with this kinda thing? I have talked to guys about it and it is not healthy for them. Why do I need to tempt them???
And are we in a need of compliments so much that we need to somehow go to the extreme? AND do not tell me, that you put this picture up coz you "just liked it"...
Whuh, I let my frustration out. Im fine again.
thanks.

I found...

...my weirdness! Yes. I have my own unique thing that nobody else does.
So some years ago my mom discovered something from my face. Actually from one of the cheeks... There was one very very long white hair just doing nothing. And she pulled it out. And said that my granny had one at the very same spot as I did. So this is my weird thing. It grows back every time again and again. Call me a freak now, I dont mind. But since my granny is dead, it is my very own thing now. :) My freaky thing.
Which I btw just pulled out (like 3minutes ago)!
I bet its back in a week... HAHAHAHAHA

new job

So today I have my first day. It is called a JOB! :D Well, I got a little job at this second hand store that a friend of mine just opened 2 months ago, a place named KOOBAS! So I´ll be there 3 days a week... Wish me luck! :)

Another...

...amazing book!

Minu Tartu

Minu Gruusia, Minu Norra, Minu Inglismaa, Minu Horvaatia, Minu Ameerika, Minu Eesti (no need on mul läbi sellest seeriast). Seega... Mina mõtlesin, et ma võiks vabalt kirjutada raamatu Minu Tartu. Olin siin 3 aastat. Nüüd olen jälle tagasi... MINU TARTU. Kõlab hästi? :)

Do you ever...

So basically. Do you ever feel alone when you are together with a bunch of people? Ok, let me explain this. What I meant was that, you know, you are doing something with someone; for example walking outside with 3 very good friends but there is a hole in your heart? Like you are with them but actually alone?
Well, I have felt that for 2 weeks now. I am back in Tartu. I am with friends and yet... I am alone. I love my friends more then... well more then a lot of things. But Im like an outsider. Yet I am not and they all assure me this. And I know it is not true blabla. But somewhere in my heart there is a hole that is aching. And aching pretty bad... So I am with friends but yet I am alone.
And I know it has a lot to do with my lifechanges. I miss him. Yes. But it is not about that.
Not only. So please.
I am assuring you that I am not crazy or anything, I am just a bit lost. And I tend to find out God´s will for me.
Love

SO

Now all of you who didnt answer last time when I had the question who visits my blog, NOW you have the chance of answering me. I really would like to know coz I mean I write here a lot of stuff that is about my life and... maybe it will help me to understand something.
SO if u read my blog and did or didnt leave me a mark last time, then be your kind. :)

hugs love Kirsi

CRAP

CRAPCRAPCRAPCRAP.
And one more time: CRAPCRAP! :(

Sex God

Chapter 1: God Wears Lipstick

1945, from German concentration camp (Colonel Gonin):

It was shortly after the British Red Cross arrived, though it may have no connection, that a very large quantity of lipstick arrived. This was not at all what we wanted, we were screaming for hundreds and thousands of other things and I don´t know who asked for lipstick. I wish so much that I could discover who did it, it was the action of genius, sheer unadultered brilliance. I believe nothing did more for these internees than the lipstick. Women lay in bed with no sheets and no nightie but with scarlet red lips, you saw them wandering about with nothing but a blanket over their shoulders, but with scarlet red lips. I saw a woman dead on the postmortem table and clutched in her hand was a piece of lipstick. At last someone had done something to make them individuals again, they were someone, no loger merely the number tattooed on the arm. At last they could take an interest in their appearance. That lipstick started to give them back their humanity.

When a human being is mistreated, objectified, or neglected, when they are treated less than human, these actions are actions against God. Because how you treat the creation reflects how you feel about the Creator.

Dear friends...

...and also people that I dont know so good.
I am done with questions for now. Yes, I know I said in the last blog that is erased by now, that ask if you want to ask something, but Im done now. I have gotten about 15 letters in 2 days and I cant and dont want to talk about it anymore. If you love then please love me unconditionally. Just be there for me and know that I am in peace...
Thank you for understanding and If you want to know something, feel free to ask Timo also.

Kirsi